We need to understand the two forces that motivate us humans. the first motivating force is to gain

gain pleasure. Anything or anybody that gives us joy and happiness will motivate us towards change,

towards goals, towards whatever it is that will have an end result of pleasure.

The second force that motivates us as humans is pain and what we do to avoid it. Now pain itself

can actually be the greatest motivator of the two forces but unfortunately pain as a motivator is

usually short lived. This is simply because as soon as the pain lessons, so does the motivation it drives.